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		<title>Comment on Mexican Dance Ensemble of Chicago At Charles H. Wright Museum by Gabby's Going Out: 10/7/11-10/9/11 &#124; Mi Estilo Magazine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gabby's Going Out: 10/7/11-10/9/11 &#124; Mi Estilo Magazine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Oct 2011 23:45:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] 8        Celebrate Hispanic Heritage month as the Charles H. Wright Museum brings the Mexican Dance Ensemble of Chicago to town at 1pm.  The dance performance will express the connection between Mexican and African [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on Don&#8217;t Talk About My Curves by Rhonda Gutierrez: Finding Her Voice &#124; Mi Estilo Magazine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rhonda Gutierrez: Finding Her Voice &#124; Mi Estilo Magazine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Aug 2011 03:19:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] of Rhonda&#8217;s favorite pieces include: Don&#8217;t Talk About My Curves, You Can&#8217;t Take Them With You and Are Funerals Really Necessary? She says they are some of [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on Salsa Dancing in the Park by Gabby's Out and About: 8/5/11-8/7/11 &#124; Mi Estilo Magazine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gabby's Out and About: 8/5/11-8/7/11 &#124; Mi Estilo Magazine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Aug 2011 12:12:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] out your dancing shoes for a hot night of &#8230; Read more    [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on About Us by Mi Estilo Held Launch Party To Unveil Its 2.0 &#124; Mi Estilo Magazine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mi Estilo Held Launch Party To Unveil Its 2.0 &#124; Mi Estilo Magazine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jul 2011 01:19:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] ABOUT US [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on Enrique Iglesias Seduces Sold Out Caesars Windsor Crowd by Euphoria Tour feat. Enrique Iglesias w/Pitbull and Prince Royce &#124; Mi Estilo Magazine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Euphoria Tour feat. Enrique Iglesias w/Pitbull and Prince Royce &#124; Mi Estilo Magazine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jul 2011 15:34:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] You can also check out our Enrique Iglesias concert review “Enrique Iglesias Seduces Sold Out Caesars Windsor Crowd” [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on Finding Peace for Rosie Woolwine by RUTHANN STANTON YANEZ</title>
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		<dc:creator>RUTHANN STANTON YANEZ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Jul 2011 18:38:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>MISS YOU SO MUCH, ROSIE AND I WERE BEST FRIENDS SINCE WE WERE 11YEARS OLD SHE WAS A WONDERFUL MOTHER AND A GREAT FRIEND WE WERE ROOMATES WHEN JUAN TOOK HER FROM US  LOVE YOU ROSIE REST IN PEACE THANKS TO THREASA AND OFFICER GARGIA LOVE YOU ALWAYS RUTH</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>MISS YOU SO MUCH, ROSIE AND I WERE BEST FRIENDS SINCE WE WERE 11YEARS OLD SHE WAS A WONDERFUL MOTHER AND A GREAT FRIEND WE WERE ROOMATES WHEN JUAN TOOK HER FROM US  LOVE YOU ROSIE REST IN PEACE THANKS TO THREASA AND OFFICER GARGIA LOVE YOU ALWAYS RUTH</p>
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		<title>Comment on Do You Deserve To Be A Parent? by Ala</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ala</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jun 2011 20:59:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There are two components to parenting; production and maintenance.  or in Spanish, &quot;el que hace&quot; and &quot;el que crilla.&quot; Deserving something means you had to work for it, and the way my sweet sisters are giving it up left and right, I say his job was not so hard. I know it sounds crude, but the reality is that women have forgotten to make men work for it in the first place. My advise for young women is to know your worth. my second advise is that men need to remind women to be a lady, men know how to value women. If we look at children as something we deserve, then they are commodities and not humans. Say they are like inventions, there is the author of the idea ( el que hace) and the company who applies the technology and produces it (el que crilla). No matter what, you have to respect and give props to the author of the idea. So my women, look long and well at who you are dating/ married to/ hooking up with, is he a committed, integral, loyal, economically sound, and stable man, or did he just have on a cute outfit and you liked his sneakers? Maybe you liked how he said &quot;what up do?&quot; No se, but I can imagine that we as women have to set the standards and hold these men to the standards before we have kids with them. Don&#039;t get me wrong, I am a feminist, and I believe in social justice. I have seen terrible cases, really bad cases of fathers who are absent and unable to provide for their children. I worked in mental health for three years and I can tell you that there are people who should not have custody of their children, but there are those who need to see their children. Often its their only beautiful moment in their awful life, in most cases, the kids are the only reason they are still alive. I understand that there are parents out there who do not provide for their children and avoid any obligation to them at all; but there is a group of men who cannot function as  parents (que crillan), son dignos de lastima, but they have the right to see these children. I was lucky to have a father and a mother in the home. They taught me that I must have love and mercy even for my enemies, to be aware, but to know that everyone has their story, that everyone must overcome personal barriers. Nos falta compromiso, we as a society do not feel we need to invest and commit to anything. We want disposable lives to fit in with unrealistic standards. There are men who cannot keep a job because of mental illness and they establish that they want to be good fathers but they don&#039;t have the capacity to fulfill these dreams. There are programs dedicated to helping people start micro enterprises but the money they make off of these ventures cannot exeed a certain amount or they would lose their SSI, and other services that help theme maintain their illness. So the dilema is there, they want to be a great provider,but they have a candy ball machine that only pays out $100 bucks a month. Nobody eats on that a month.  These men are a small group, but we must evaluate each case. Some men are just not there, some have no emotional tools or character. Who protects our children, we women prevent harm by studying our partners carefully. Communicating with them our wants, needs and desires. This includes the expectations of family life. A lot of us have not had these conversations with ourselves, we must start asking ourselves what we want for ourselves and for our families before we have kids, before we finish high school, we never think that far ahead. We are just trying to self gratify, quick happiness, but the consequences are long term. Open your eyes mujer, is this what you want for yourself and your home?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are two components to parenting; production and maintenance.  or in Spanish, &#8220;el que hace&#8221; and &#8220;el que crilla.&#8221; Deserving something means you had to work for it, and the way my sweet sisters are giving it up left and right, I say his job was not so hard. I know it sounds crude, but the reality is that women have forgotten to make men work for it in the first place. My advise for young women is to know your worth. my second advise is that men need to remind women to be a lady, men know how to value women. If we look at children as something we deserve, then they are commodities and not humans. Say they are like inventions, there is the author of the idea ( el que hace) and the company who applies the technology and produces it (el que crilla). No matter what, you have to respect and give props to the author of the idea. So my women, look long and well at who you are dating/ married to/ hooking up with, is he a committed, integral, loyal, economically sound, and stable man, or did he just have on a cute outfit and you liked his sneakers? Maybe you liked how he said &#8220;what up do?&#8221; No se, but I can imagine that we as women have to set the standards and hold these men to the standards before we have kids with them. Don&#8217;t get me wrong, I am a feminist, and I believe in social justice. I have seen terrible cases, really bad cases of fathers who are absent and unable to provide for their children. I worked in mental health for three years and I can tell you that there are people who should not have custody of their children, but there are those who need to see their children. Often its their only beautiful moment in their awful life, in most cases, the kids are the only reason they are still alive. I understand that there are parents out there who do not provide for their children and avoid any obligation to them at all; but there is a group of men who cannot function as  parents (que crillan), son dignos de lastima, but they have the right to see these children. I was lucky to have a father and a mother in the home. They taught me that I must have love and mercy even for my enemies, to be aware, but to know that everyone has their story, that everyone must overcome personal barriers. Nos falta compromiso, we as a society do not feel we need to invest and commit to anything. We want disposable lives to fit in with unrealistic standards. There are men who cannot keep a job because of mental illness and they establish that they want to be good fathers but they don&#8217;t have the capacity to fulfill these dreams. There are programs dedicated to helping people start micro enterprises but the money they make off of these ventures cannot exeed a certain amount or they would lose their SSI, and other services that help theme maintain their illness. So the dilema is there, they want to be a great provider,but they have a candy ball machine that only pays out $100 bucks a month. Nobody eats on that a month.  These men are a small group, but we must evaluate each case. Some men are just not there, some have no emotional tools or character. Who protects our children, we women prevent harm by studying our partners carefully. Communicating with them our wants, needs and desires. This includes the expectations of family life. A lot of us have not had these conversations with ourselves, we must start asking ourselves what we want for ourselves and for our families before we have kids, before we finish high school, we never think that far ahead. We are just trying to self gratify, quick happiness, but the consequences are long term. Open your eyes mujer, is this what you want for yourself and your home?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Making A Difference by Pam Talluto</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pam Talluto</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jun 2011 13:29:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you so much for this beautiful article Roni.  As we have discussed, there are no conincidences, including how our paths have crossed :)  Amazing, isn&#039;t it??</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for this beautiful article Roni.  As we have discussed, there are no conincidences, including how our paths have crossed <img src='http://miestilomag.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   Amazing, isn&#8217;t it??</p>
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		<title>Comment on A Night With Jon Secada At Caesars Windsor by Roni Gutierrez</title>
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		<dc:creator>Roni Gutierrez</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 May 2011 19:58:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great Article!  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great Article!  <img src='http://miestilomag.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Grilled Chicken With Strawberry and Pineapple Salsa by miestilomag</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 May 2011 04:26:27 +0000</pubDate>
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