For some males there are deeper problems, such as abandonment issues.  Regardless of the cause, being abandoned can lead to cheating in future relationships.  It’s the whole “I’ll hurt you before you hurt me” scenario.

Then, there’s “sexual addiction.”   This phenomenon, which has not universally been accepted by sexologists, seems like a celebrity’s only way to save their marriages and bank account! (Cough, cough: Tiger Woods).

Now, check out the flip side to the coin.  We can commit ourselves to relationships whether it’s something serious relationship or even marriage.  The sex is always great at first! Then, when the “honeymoon phase” is over, sex isn’t as frequent or as freaky. Understandably, things can slow down.  When the “lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets” women we fell in love with is now a distant memory, we feel like we’ve been bamboozled! Women should ask themselves, if they are ready to maintain a mutually satisfying a healthy sex life just as we are expected to remain monogamous.

In no way, do I condone this activity but this is dealing with what is seen as human nature.  When we no longer feeling attractive to our significant other is when we stray toward someone who seems to give us what we are looking for.  So ladies… are you ready to commit yourself to a healthy sexual relationship? I can hear you ladies now “I don’t have to have sex if I don’t want to! I’m not his sex slave you know!” If you’re saying this, then you’re missing the point.  It’s about learning together how to keep things fresh, new, and exciting.  Good luck and remember…a fat kid never wanders far from the cake!

Author: Andres Pivens

The worst place for people to be lazy is at work.  A while back, I used work at a toy store.  Little kids would throw toys everywhere and puke on the floor.  I had to deal with these things and more.  One of the girls I worked with was the laziest person on earth, although she had the same job as me.  However, she would stand around instead of cleaning, act like a jerk to customers and do nothing.  While you were working, she’d say how much work there was and do none of it.

Now, I work at a department store where it’s slightly less annoying because I don’t have to work with the same few people all the time. However, there are still those people who take 20 minutes to do just one thing, taking breaks in between and acting like they don’t realize that there’s a lot of work that you end up doing.  It is so irritating when you’re the only person working and are left to do all of the work of your lazy co-workers. In my opinion, business expert Guy Browning, explains it best: “Lazy people actually lead very full lives because they take [a very] long time to do simple things like photocopying.  In order to fill their days…they select the most trivially unimportant aspect of a job and devote their whole energy to it.”  That is exactly what the people I’ve worked with have done.  I think that if you’re getting paid to work, then work! Slackers screw up other people’s lives.

My generation has become too accustomed to getting things handed to them.  Kids are babied by parents that buy everything for them and fight their battles.  So now, they expect the same from the rest of the world.  As a result of this self-entitlement comes cheating, half-baked work and, increasingly, obesity because nobody wants to get up from their T.V. or computer.

People need to wake up and realize that nobody is going to carry them.  Parents need to see that babying their kids will ruin them because they will be hated for their laziness.  When people get everything handed to them, they will expect that same treatment from everybody.  This seriously irritates those of us who have to work our asses off for what we have.  Now, I know life isn’t always “fair.”  For God’s sake, if you know you have everything to earn a good life, pull your weight and give the rest of us a break.  I don’t appreciate having to work my butt off to hold up some lazy jerk. I have my own life to worry about.

Author: Crissy Zamarron

Have I ever been cheated on? Sure and I have to tell you that it didn’t feel good.  It made me question myself.  Wasn’t I good enough? Not loving enough? Even though we all sometimes question ourselves, the sad truth is that sometimes people just cheat.  That’s what they do.  Does it end? NO!

Looking back at past relationships, I do not regret them because they brought me to this point.  They taught me lessons, made me stronger and helped me to appreciate all the special things about my husband.  The cheaters showed me exactly what I didn’t want in a partner.

So many people are paranoid at the thought of a cheating partner.  They check emails, phone calls, text messages and, in some extreme cases, follow their partner.  Why? Think of the TV show, Cheaters.  A person with suspicions contacts the show and requests that they spy on their significant others. HELLLLOOOOO….IF YOU HAVE TO CALL THE SHOW TO SPY ON YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER, THEN YOU PROBABLY SHOULDN’T BE WITH THEM IN THE FIRST PLACE!!! The funny thing is that, by the end of the show, after the cheater is videotaped, confronted and caught, the couple usually remains together anyway. So then, what was the point of the whole ordeal?

This is my point: is it really that important to catch your spouse cheating? Honestly, if you’re at this point of your relationship, then you really shouldn’t be together.  Without trust, you have nothing.  What is the worst thing that could happen, if you find out that your partner is cheating? Hopefully, you would break up and move on.  Life does not end because you were cheated on.  You’ll probably find someone much better anyway.  What’s so bad about that? Save the time that you would spend checking up on your mate and have some friends. Life is too short.