Dear readers, I have been taking some time dealing with some life changes. Many new and wonderful things have happened to me that required time to adapt. For one, I began a new job and made the decision to live a fulfilled, happy life. However, despite all of this joy, finding contentment in romantic relationships [...]

Not a whole lot has changed in the world of dating since my parents’ generation. Although my parents grew up in the ’80s, much of what Rhonda wrote is still true. There are still slutty girls.  There are still playas and there still is a double standard. There are just as many cheaters.  Contrary to [...]

Dating sure has changed since the ’80s and ’90s.  We actually talked on the phone instead of texting.  We didn’t have computer to communicate.  The only computer that I used was in school.  It was an Apple, back when it was a hulking monster. There was no Internet.  We met at dances, clubs, school and [...]

It appears that lately as a newly single woman, I’ve come to ask myself whether to chase or not to chase-a question that has eluded even the most independent,  successful women I know. We were told growing up that we can do anything: have big careers, bigger paychecks and drive BMers–just like the guys do. [...]